Funny Video About Army Soldiers

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Funny Video About Army Soldiers

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Life – The Way I See it !

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="text-align: justify;">What I am going to share with you all is my own learning of life which I have personally experienced, learned, read, visualized or maybe just imagined and that’s all my thoughts cumulatively and collectively bundled up in a single piece of write up.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioxVx3SdwIWMdk6XdArYZ4Mtk41s48V3obrDZQjfhUCsndGGHg7rk8Jw67JfR9spA3byGnG0Oc3xbWJavpbnCaQzCNtGZNKkxSapFHQnG-Qj3GM1aP39q1avk33yKOMHnF0O8-WNhZDqci/s1600/enjoy-life.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioxVx3SdwIWMdk6XdArYZ4Mtk41s48V3obrDZQjfhUCsndGGHg7rk8Jw67JfR9spA3byGnG0Oc3xbWJavpbnCaQzCNtGZNKkxSapFHQnG-Qj3GM1aP39q1avk33yKOMHnF0O8-WNhZDqci/s320/enjoy-life.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><b><span style="color: navy;">What I have learnt from my life:</span></b></div><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li>Life is sometimes cruel but it is not intolerable always </li><li>One day or the other, everyone is going to hurt you but you have to decide what’s more important the issue or the relation.</li><li>To avoid jealousy, compete with your own self</li></ul><div style="text-align: justify;">As beautifully said by Denis Waitley:</div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><i>“The most splendid achievement of all is the constant striving to surpass yourself and to be worthy of your own approval”</i></b><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwnggD0NsE3NUVLg4lGAWTQrTPpwZ590yfPPxAiZal-0RtDwwekhQVUKFhBtb841Y3u0IGT9N9RIOjzmcyIKMME22-7LExeGA7ysROnY0SFlzSZdBjyYfqAExEKDmP7Sm6UPUK1QbepBd7/s1600/life.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="186" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwnggD0NsE3NUVLg4lGAWTQrTPpwZ590yfPPxAiZal-0RtDwwekhQVUKFhBtb841Y3u0IGT9N9RIOjzmcyIKMME22-7LExeGA7ysROnY0SFlzSZdBjyYfqAExEKDmP7Sm6UPUK1QbepBd7/s320/life.jpg" width="320" /></a><b><i> </i></b></div><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li>Competition (jealousy) and friendship can’t go hand in hand<span style="color: black;"> </span></li><li><span style="color: black;">Live your best moments with your family and with your friends</span> </li><li>Listening to someone’s problems might not lessen it but it surely lessens the pain</li><li>Spending some time with children will give you eternal happiness, the stupidity, the innocence and the charm when a child holds your hand … these are the moments of Life…. Live them !</li><li>Start Living…Stop Complaining…Lil things around U give lil happiness but guess what…those all LIL Happiness Collectively makes your day Worthwhile!!! Enjoy little things happening around u and turn your ANOTHER Ordinary day into JUST another Enjoyable day from Now ON  </li><li>I have learned to care people too much, not because I expect them to care about me in return but because I know the Pain of being Ignored !</li><li>Ups and downs are the flavor of Life…. just look closer at your heartbeat (ECG)…..and you will that they show that you are ALIVE !!!…. the day they become straight or smooth …..is the day your life ends !!!</li><li>Going with the flow sometimes work for you but there are times when you feel that the flow was not fast enough to wash away your past !!!</li><li>Love is nothing but a blindfold, while you are being tied with it, U feel U have become blind in real…you can’t see the rights and wrongs happening around U !!! but suddenly an accident gets the blindfold down and you realize that neither were U blind nor was your every step/decision right !!!</li><li>Forgive others Smilingly….. it not only gives comfort to other person but also relieves your tension to extreme !!!</li><li>The bitterest fact life taught me is….. The number of People who are against U will always be more than the number of People who appreciates U </li><li>Always Be Yourself….Because the People that matter won’t mind…and the People who mind….. Don’t Matter !!!</li><li>Life is already very Complicated……….. Do not make it more complex by fighting with your friends </li><li>Life means to struggle…better struggle with a smiling face …… to shrug off all the tensions rather then … frowning n getting irritated to increase the frustration</li><li>U don’t really understand the value of your closed ones … Until…… either U r deeply hurt by them …. or they are going away</li><li>If Luv is the best feeling in the world…. then I guess….. Friendship is the <b>BESTEST</b> </li><li>There’s only one relation in the world……. that is of <b>MOM n a Child</b> !!! Everything else is just a mere compromise….. dependency or sometimes necessity for the time being</li><li>Its never to late to accept your mistake and repentance,and ALLAH will always forgive !!!</li><li>Stop Complaining …. There are Millions of People who are Less Privileged then U … Be Grateful to ALLAH … ALWAYS</li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1JYLy9A_hbeF8ekN0PRYo2h1jVAJZNxgxhquzE4exheYRNbz-Y7bX7yk86VKZ4P6eVqDUwxqZ-_isBq7hkYz33QyfYRDyxunkPA6tCY8HIy3roWrQ9USofsT3H4yXSkZ2nkCeE57VVUfM/s1600/life_quotes.gif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="235" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1JYLy9A_hbeF8ekN0PRYo2h1jVAJZNxgxhquzE4exheYRNbz-Y7bX7yk86VKZ4P6eVqDUwxqZ-_isBq7hkYz33QyfYRDyxunkPA6tCY8HIy3roWrQ9USofsT3H4yXSkZ2nkCeE57VVUfM/s320/life_quotes.gif" width="320" /></a> </div><ul style="text-align: justify;"></ul><div style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: navy;">What I have learnt from my life:</span></b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Forgive today !</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Appreciate today !</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make Someone smile today  !</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Make others feel valued and Luved today  !</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… Love today !</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: navy;">and Most Importantly Tomorrow’s Life too Late…… LIVE Today !!!</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">This is my life as I see it, I feel it and I am living it. I am very grateful to ALLAH for everything and I am also thankful to everyone who make my life worth living , Love you all !!!</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: navy;"><b>I will keep updating this particular blog, since Life is all about continuous learning !!!</b></span></div></div>

Life – The Way I See it !

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Cyber Relationship

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="text-align: justify;">Almost all the people think that the internet relationship is unrealistic. They think that it’s impossible for them to have feeling for each other since they haven’t met each other or got together with each other. However, when the other day I discussed this topic with my friend, we both think that the internet relationship can be real, sincere and forever. It has nothing different from other relationships in the reality. Of course, the basic of this relationship is that we don’t have any evil purpose to each other or anything deceive.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDXQN7cMVuZKYLQwDfyUxAD6Ct8r6XmpjZIaV3qyr7A4hL9BUG18QvsgM3vtay8TTN7HzpZfz_0Iw7LzzxMfiCP9esNT7oTrEbjNRhR3ZQnd949q6DB59cKBwNyVV4S1MT-bYJdxfkl6lx/s1600/atpcsblowingkisses_1.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDXQN7cMVuZKYLQwDfyUxAD6Ct8r6XmpjZIaV3qyr7A4hL9BUG18QvsgM3vtay8TTN7HzpZfz_0Iw7LzzxMfiCP9esNT7oTrEbjNRhR3ZQnd949q6DB59cKBwNyVV4S1MT-bYJdxfkl6lx/s1600/atpcsblowingkisses_1.jpg" /></a> </div><br />Because of the dream of being postgraduate, I met some friends online. For the same dream, we chatted happily. In my opinion, they have nothing different from other friends I meet in reality. I treat them good, sincere and real. I never enclose any information about me. I show a real myself before them, even more real in the reality. Because of the distance, you often can discuss the topic which can touch your heart. Moreover, there is always something same deep in our heart or in the pursuit of soul. Therefore, it’s easy for us to get along with each other well. In my experience, nobody deceive me on purpose.<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipzQtTpT2NYOGACDJ3SN4jJSTZC5oEFp0uFVFqzhoU1mJjGgbBXOHQKJoNG0W2XkWnZWizwzcEqqjIQoZsSiIOzSj2K7T1w_DCZrVp6i2DxG10iStIRHbAKDdym6xMTWzFUcUQYt39QJx3/s1600/cyber_love_article.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipzQtTpT2NYOGACDJ3SN4jJSTZC5oEFp0uFVFqzhoU1mJjGgbBXOHQKJoNG0W2XkWnZWizwzcEqqjIQoZsSiIOzSj2K7T1w_DCZrVp6i2DxG10iStIRHbAKDdym6xMTWzFUcUQYt39QJx3/s1600/cyber_love_article.jpg" /></a></div>We have feeling for each other because we know each other. We know each other because we communicate. Chatting on Facebook or chatting by messages or chatting on phone is only a kind of the way of communication in this modern society. In reality, we often fall in love with someone at the sight we see her, especially in the adolescence period. At that time, it’s common that we fall in love with some boy or girl deep <span id="goog_813669723"></span><span id="goog_813669724"></span>in heart even though we never talk to each other. Comparing these two kinds of emotion, I think the cyber love is more reliant and more real. In the latter one, we love just because of his appearance or a kind of imagination inner your heart. You know nothing about him or her. It’s often said that if you have chance to talk with her or get together with her, you will feel disappointing and then you will lose those ever feeling. In contrast, you fall in cyber love because you know something deep in her character, and you are crush to this kind of character.<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPhEW7uD_5tk-jKdL5qPOTmwk0qQxK6Bh0wO2qXS_xeMbfoon2Yax1LKQVJSsuiw0SkmgZoA4HgGEQV9ZLkhNsjySssfzeXClD73yp0dbtECq1OCOPYJZHp31KiFiVKJnuJqHGsJeeYq2/s1600/cyber-seduction.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPhEW7uD_5tk-jKdL5qPOTmwk0qQxK6Bh0wO2qXS_xeMbfoon2Yax1LKQVJSsuiw0SkmgZoA4HgGEQV9ZLkhNsjySssfzeXClD73yp0dbtECq1OCOPYJZHp31KiFiVKJnuJqHGsJeeYq2/s1600/cyber-seduction.jpg" /></a></div>Because of the aim of post graduation exam, I met her online. We ever chatted a lot. I always have a good feeling for her. And gradually we became a lover. If considering it as a true love, this is my first love, my first love happening between two persons. However, when meet each other face to face, we must end our relationship. But I never think the failure of our relationship is because it’s a cyber love. In fact, it has nothing to do with its kind. If we are a lover met in reality, we also have to end our relationship, because he offends the authentic essence of the love royalty and sincerity.<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDXIMLJyP3P8DrsqVgTx28VJoQiifQv3ekQkYla4pzCAyXw6ziIREZrbHtqei68zImLRlCSVMrlxIj7IWBYJXNdjai6Q98PcDVeKxKQxZT6833gsCEg_UHaWbMSj5zkvMCoJtx7ILriacO/s1600/Cyber-relationships-ruin--031009+%25281%2529.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDXIMLJyP3P8DrsqVgTx28VJoQiifQv3ekQkYla4pzCAyXw6ziIREZrbHtqei68zImLRlCSVMrlxIj7IWBYJXNdjai6Q98PcDVeKxKQxZT6833gsCEg_UHaWbMSj5zkvMCoJtx7ILriacO/s320/Cyber-relationships-ruin--031009+%25281%2529.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div>The society is filled up with rushing persons and rushing materials. You can know someone only by a click of the key, and it’s probable that he or she disappears one second later. Even in our daily reality life, It’s common that people run to a city to another. It’s difficult for us to get together with each other for a long time and know each other deeply. Chatting online or by phone are our important tool of communication. Therefore, just take cyber relationship ease.<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAP6BfqitgA_RlpqzlYMvtrBPcHUT-XRKdYajLOqWRhSVw8QjFX3q8aXFR_uAOYZWtlWF874X3RZQezd5iFQP_LYmn619XaPpDuhJDPjNeSh2OJCJpX6Qjx-bMDYrPA1qqb2BvObuivhZM/s1600/find-love-online-dating-sites.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAP6BfqitgA_RlpqzlYMvtrBPcHUT-XRKdYajLOqWRhSVw8QjFX3q8aXFR_uAOYZWtlWF874X3RZQezd5iFQP_LYmn619XaPpDuhJDPjNeSh2OJCJpX6Qjx-bMDYrPA1qqb2BvObuivhZM/s320/find-love-online-dating-sites.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>The essence of a authentic friendship or love is sincerity, commonness, and respect. Keep this belief in out mind, we will get authentic eternal valuable friendship and love, no matter when, where, how we meet and know each other.</div></div>

Cyber Relationship

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Still Miss You

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfCiPabOz7FmDowy9nUD46-wMPkSGZxoY0qFbQOPyypuWh9_dkaIZCSqaYnQF2rSPhxuVNlInZC8CPEJ1jx7zQ7snsVSGBB3MLWp9stDmiH1nPeq5pFJEeghtLLjldH9mZASJcyysgDyQB/s1600/Chance.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="218" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfCiPabOz7FmDowy9nUD46-wMPkSGZxoY0qFbQOPyypuWh9_dkaIZCSqaYnQF2rSPhxuVNlInZC8CPEJ1jx7zQ7snsVSGBB3MLWp9stDmiH1nPeq5pFJEeghtLLjldH9mZASJcyysgDyQB/s320/Chance.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">For a long time I seldom get together with her. At first I felt very uneasy. Then I felt that I used to it.  I seem to forget her gradually. At least, I seldom feel the worry and care for her. I don’t know whether this choice is reasonable or unwise.Sometimes I will think about her, and the enjoyment and happiness when we get together.It’s a pity that I lose her forever.  <br /><br />I don't know whether she notices or cares about it. Maybe I am just one of her good friends. The other day Melody said to me that no woman will treat you good without purpose.  So, does she treat me more special than other boys? I am not sure.  </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5o8hRdIl6ax1GHa742VM0stnzaDPsduPbSQFFFeGXW86-L-dwAYmtrhdlxH6YWWXhGSalQllEi0E-Q-bNLe1eg8K7k4eRTuRUjipYLRgoknbkTEX_HBuMfcc4ljAQEelpy4W7mFUsUYYd/s1600/Splitting.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5o8hRdIl6ax1GHa742VM0stnzaDPsduPbSQFFFeGXW86-L-dwAYmtrhdlxH6YWWXhGSalQllEi0E-Q-bNLe1eg8K7k4eRTuRUjipYLRgoknbkTEX_HBuMfcc4ljAQEelpy4W7mFUsUYYd/s1600/Splitting.jpg" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">I seem to be not a sensitive guy who notices others’ attitude to me.  I just know clearly that when I am with her my heart is full of joy and happiness. No matter what is the real matter, it’s clear that we are far from each other. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">It’s said that persons are like hedgehogs in need of warmness. If we are too far away, we can’t get warmness from each other. If we are too close, the thorns over our body will hurt each other. Therefore, the perfect distance between persons is neither too far way nor too close. We should care for, believe and contain each other, and above all, we should leave each other a personal time and space.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqG8Tzmt-wyr97pRTnOoKxE1q7V9wyn83IueS3bUxNbR6SNJQM43B7OEP_w0jnLyCF8LfaUusfnT4LloO-Qvj1hAym38iYVKE1eeiQw3pqhj7gmLow9sEjI1D3Xp6Zj7RBwjB10yCntqBK/s1600/lose.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqG8Tzmt-wyr97pRTnOoKxE1q7V9wyn83IueS3bUxNbR6SNJQM43B7OEP_w0jnLyCF8LfaUusfnT4LloO-Qvj1hAym38iYVKE1eeiQw3pqhj7gmLow9sEjI1D3Xp6Zj7RBwjB10yCntqBK/s1600/lose.jpeg" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">It’s strange how a somewhat amazing day (filled with talks, rumbles, jokes and laughter with her) could end so disappointingly. but right now, it feels somewhat better, for which i’m glad thought about this speedy friendship, about how it had progressed ever since day 1, when i first sat beside her in the library all I know is, our barely two-months neutral friendship can never compete with a 3 years long relationship.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyvbWSKl5eWCgSM6b4e7IzILmTVNuH5BoW0xyU8-z95WwVJBd3AOkQBDeCp6cxKIXV6lxJ19Mehr2Sr3OVhN6XEMclFY8do1-pnOnxC_lhOXRL2tHFQ44EJwpB1xT2uNZiRhzneivodp4R/s1600/Running.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyvbWSKl5eWCgSM6b4e7IzILmTVNuH5BoW0xyU8-z95WwVJBd3AOkQBDeCp6cxKIXV6lxJ19Mehr2Sr3OVhN6XEMclFY8do1-pnOnxC_lhOXRL2tHFQ44EJwpB1xT2uNZiRhzneivodp4R/s320/Running.jpg" width="208" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxXW9gYAJjJUNwksac9tio0kI9uG5M8Dkcs8hmrnNNaW3fgX1v_hg9VG2yWLazP6LvyGwESgSTu3wDW6clN0m6hViJlvQHd_Bx_aoMyvFWs_M_-zJQaxQiE5E5jswkt1Q9TTJZ6fmkENPW/s1600/miss-you.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />I will take this friendship lightly, I will just enjoy the company, the advices,   the jokes easily. just enjoy and be neutral.  I am a bright guy who knows clearly about my advantages and weakness. But it’s difficult for me to conquer my weakness. Who can help me and who can tell me what I can do? just walk away</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxXW9gYAJjJUNwksac9tio0kI9uG5M8Dkcs8hmrnNNaW3fgX1v_hg9VG2yWLazP6LvyGwESgSTu3wDW6clN0m6hViJlvQHd_Bx_aoMyvFWs_M_-zJQaxQiE5E5jswkt1Q9TTJZ6fmkENPW/s1600/miss-you.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxXW9gYAJjJUNwksac9tio0kI9uG5M8Dkcs8hmrnNNaW3fgX1v_hg9VG2yWLazP6LvyGwESgSTu3wDW6clN0m6hViJlvQHd_Bx_aoMyvFWs_M_-zJQaxQiE5E5jswkt1Q9TTJZ6fmkENPW/s320/miss-you.jpg" width="297" /></a></div></div>

Still Miss You

For a long time I seldom get together with her. At first I felt very uneasy. Then I felt that I used to it.  I seem to forget her gradually....

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Friendship

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgH9r-hN7K-jlFCXkyiewFa9KRh3VuCERs668vkjxiwEZWrQXloI1t3CNaiCdlDK9jrHdo4xtt2R1UKfK1QJVLVShVKo7juYCsgFZ_sFROKnJKCuS_YAdA0N2IK-EsgrGwDl8Z5J6EiGCvG/s1600/Friendship-Tattoo-for-Girls.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgH9r-hN7K-jlFCXkyiewFa9KRh3VuCERs668vkjxiwEZWrQXloI1t3CNaiCdlDK9jrHdo4xtt2R1UKfK1QJVLVShVKo7juYCsgFZ_sFROKnJKCuS_YAdA0N2IK-EsgrGwDl8Z5J6EiGCvG/s400/Friendship-Tattoo-for-Girls.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Friendship is choosing one person, or few persons, over all other people. By calling someone a friend one is stating, "This person is more valuable to me than Stranger Bob whom I have never met." One values some, meaning friends, over others, meaning Stranger Bobs, based on the potential friend's standards or morality. Therefore, people with similar almost synonymous moral standards are friends, or should be friends. For example, a capitalist cannot be friends with a Marxist, a liberal cannot be friends with a Nazi. The reason being that a capitalist values certain things as truly correct and truly virtuous that the Marxist will find truly incorrect and truly vicious, and vice <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">versa</span>. For example, a capitalist believes it is virtuous for the government to minimize its regulation so that a free market can exist. The capitalist believes every man is an individual; thus, must have the liberty to make choices and actions for his own gain.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkHM3qDZATqz0kvhE-5TwBhXAOo3wkPQAustEPDU9gaJxr9SZxCKyqvOMlogxEO-yjSnOt3wRIC2r4l9pr7UBG5NWVhIFc7gK_JFPJ5Wi0cE8xsUTQ42RuLyYK5gvjhkAp0sGS7edZOMyi/s1600/friends1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="318" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkHM3qDZATqz0kvhE-5TwBhXAOo3wkPQAustEPDU9gaJxr9SZxCKyqvOMlogxEO-yjSnOt3wRIC2r4l9pr7UBG5NWVhIFc7gK_JFPJ5Wi0cE8xsUTQ42RuLyYK5gvjhkAp0sGS7edZOMyi/s400/friends1.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">A Marxist, however, believes that it is vicious for the government to do what the capitalist thinks is virtuous. Instead, the Marxist finds maximum government regulation as virtuous. The Marxist believes that every man is just a member of a larger collective; therefore, his choices and actions must assist the mass not himself. Essentially, the capitalist would believe that the Marxist is vicious, and the Marxist would believe the capitalist is vicious. Therefore, they cannot be friends because they do not value one another. Since they do not value one <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">another's</span> standards, and one's actions are based on one's standards, they cannot value how one another live their lives. In order to be friends one must recognize one's own standards in the other person. Essentially, every individual wants to be a virtuous person; therefore, he is going to surround himself with other virtuous people. If he surrounds himself with any vicious person he just enables vice. This is how friendship is selfish. It is choosing one person over others. It is choosing one person based on whether or not he is virtuous. Finally, it is choosing virtuous people because one wants to be virtuous and one wants to be around virtuous people.</div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLJjO32yOnY2JLDQfHmCgspuBl5ksK0BkTZoSOrNqxbIbbdKuDd3zQAMG5jHeyjlMKB5hJuZ_AoXGipmC0j-SF9T5jbc12BhI0k21nZiSUdFz19coZA-vQMeargE6Eejh-dpmCoDB-aSyU/s1600/friends_cast_004a.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="298" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLJjO32yOnY2JLDQfHmCgspuBl5ksK0BkTZoSOrNqxbIbbdKuDd3zQAMG5jHeyjlMKB5hJuZ_AoXGipmC0j-SF9T5jbc12BhI0k21nZiSUdFz19coZA-vQMeargE6Eejh-dpmCoDB-aSyU/s400/friends_cast_004a.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Unfortunately, as I stated earlier, this is not how friendship is understood. People understand friendship as sacrifice. Essentially, one should surrender element's of one's self in order to be friends with and love all others. There are several problems with this.</div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHPtYbVMe-iZ2dTUFZd-hzpLUJ0pEHuw9UfySWk6hDX87NKnyFjGXD0vg0fJXGwcqEBGSzpGzTTd5o08ElSXkZucLPiV_qVLdCpkk6b3Jbu9qTr6FbatR_jpgEk0_dqQ8vp1jO98FpKY8W/s1600/Friends-friends-69087_1024_768.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHPtYbVMe-iZ2dTUFZd-hzpLUJ0pEHuw9UfySWk6hDX87NKnyFjGXD0vg0fJXGwcqEBGSzpGzTTd5o08ElSXkZucLPiV_qVLdCpkk6b3Jbu9qTr6FbatR_jpgEk0_dqQ8vp1jO98FpKY8W/s400/Friends-friends-69087_1024_768.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Firstly, once again every individual wants to be virtuous, and it is virtuous to want to be virtuous and live virtuously. Furthermore, one's standards and one's actions define one's self. Additionally, one's standards and one's actions are always based on morality. Therefore, if friendship is based on sacrifice, then friendship is also based on being vicious. If one must sacrifice qualities of one's self to be friends with and love everyone, one is choosing not to be virtuous. For example, someone believes that it is virtuous to study science and understand the natural world. However, he has chosen a friend who believes it is vicious to understand the natural world because the scientific explanations are lies about God's work, and more importantly God should be the only one to understand his creation. (The latter person is obviously a lunatic.) Therefore, the former individual, the scientist, must sacrifice some of his qualities that assist him in understanding reality. Even if he has to sacrifice these qualities just by not speaking about his work while he is around the latter person something is terribly wrong. First, by not embracing those qualities he defines as virtuous he is being vicious. Just to get this point across I am going to use a religious example. If one is a Catholic it is virtuous to receive holy communion; therefore, if one does not receive it he is being vicious. A similar situation is occurring here.</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBA8OkO7B06KezLqjuOvpSQcC2p7wKHy0K6pvzKuALfdgkeCl0HWwcQoi-2o27Py45me9SBGaOcMEdJYbCrgMfnzLr3JGzQJYX3JLrvryccFPHKI3fhSJUB8ZCcgYYBNZmRGRP6NKfNf_I/s1600/friends-season.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBA8OkO7B06KezLqjuOvpSQcC2p7wKHy0K6pvzKuALfdgkeCl0HWwcQoi-2o27Py45me9SBGaOcMEdJYbCrgMfnzLr3JGzQJYX3JLrvryccFPHKI3fhSJUB8ZCcgYYBNZmRGRP6NKfNf_I/s400/friends-season.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">The second problem with this friendship is that scientist obviously thinks the religious lunatic is vicious, for the religious lunatic thinks it is virtuous to be completely ignorant the natural world, or reality. Therefore, by being friends with this religious lunatic the scientist is choosing to value someone he knows to be vicious, and the religious lunatic understands this. Everyone, whether they admit it or not, knows that friendship is about valuing one person more than another. Thus, the scientist is sending the following message to the religious lunatic, "You have more virtues than vices. You are not vicious enough for me to ignore you. You are virtuous enough to be valued by me." Consequently, the religious <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">lunatic's</span> lifestyle is being affirmed. The scientist, who he values highly because he is a friend, is telling him that his vicious ignorant beliefs are virtuous. In turn, the religious lunatic will continue acting on his vicious standards. Basically, the scientist enables vice. Thus, the scientist is being vicious for two reasons. First, he is avoiding virtue at least while he is with the religious lunatic. Second, he is enabling vices.</div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcGniX8Xnb5KzNxQ5d2L0qJSX7d97NSIQB4E3cQU7XIDjX8mRdEECZTneOG_28-pYzHNB0UBNun4XwBuBmdoYsB6fu4LW5GygCYKEMlIYtMIBWEab5c8XbW_GsNIjYMpkia6IhzwsDRKZ9/s1600/girls%252520friendship-day-orkut-2.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="335" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcGniX8Xnb5KzNxQ5d2L0qJSX7d97NSIQB4E3cQU7XIDjX8mRdEECZTneOG_28-pYzHNB0UBNun4XwBuBmdoYsB6fu4LW5GygCYKEMlIYtMIBWEab5c8XbW_GsNIjYMpkia6IhzwsDRKZ9/s400/girls%252520friendship-day-orkut-2.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">The second problem with sacrificial friendship is that it is not friendship at all. Once again, friendship is choosing a few individuals over all others. However, sacrificial friendships tells people to be friends with and love everyone. In this case, once does not value any individual, including himself, more than any other individual. He values all people equally. Therefore, he is friends with no one.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Finally, friendship is not an end. It is not the purpose of life. It does not provide happiness. Friendship is only an icing on the cake. One should first be satisfied with one's self. One should like who he is. At this point one knows what virtue is, and he is living it; thus, he values his self. Consequently, he will be able to identify potential friendships. Essentially, one cannot value others until he values himself.</div>

Friendship

Friendship is choosing one person, or few persons, over all other people. By calling someone a friend one is stating, "This person is ...

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Love

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="text-align: justify;"><m:smallfrac m:val="off"> <m:dispdef> <m:lmargin m:val="0"> <m:rmargin m:val="0"> <m:defjc m:val="centerGroup"> <m:wrapindent m:val="1440"> <m:intlim m:val="subSup"> <m:narylim m:val="undOvr"> </m:narylim></m:intlim> </m:wrapindent> </m:defjc></m:rmargin></m:lmargin></m:dispdef></m:smallfrac></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu0dvjJFZoF-w4Hin3Xg2GUdAqHjZe0rmH6rnPTHNYGN3NrR8dqTzl2-fvJLz9726V-5gpPogHqFIn4PMyf_wwSHSqusLapnolINyi146fivt6Ur884QLhDeMarqrJJ4IrgACHkGrKeNNm/s1600/Love+Couple+In+The+Night-452666.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu0dvjJFZoF-w4Hin3Xg2GUdAqHjZe0rmH6rnPTHNYGN3NrR8dqTzl2-fvJLz9726V-5gpPogHqFIn4PMyf_wwSHSqusLapnolINyi146fivt6Ur884QLhDeMarqrJJ4IrgACHkGrKeNNm/s320/Love+Couple+In+The+Night-452666.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"><br />In several posts I have discussed how friendship and love are some of the highest forms of selfishness not selflessness as people frequently assume. One chooses another as a friend because he values that other more than mere strangers. The reason he values that other more than mere strangers is because the other follows the same moral standards as him. Therefore, similar people are friends. Dissimilar people cannot be friends, for they follow different moralities. Thus, they think one another is vicious. For example, a Marxist and a capitalist cannot be friends because the Marxist believes the capitalist is vicious, and the capitalist believes the Marxist is vicious.<br /><br />The same goes for love. The only difference is that when one loves another, he chooses one person above all others, even his friends. One can have several friends. One can value several people more than strangers. However, one can only have a single favorite. That favorite, the best friend, is the one he loves.<br /><br />Of course, this person, the one he loves, is only second to his self. The mere fact that he is choosing another person to love indicates that he values his self the most, even greater than the person he loves, for he is choosing that person because he enjoys being with that person, that person does not corrupt his virtue, that person makes him happy. When one is happy one is acting selfishly. Thus, love has nothing to do with sacrifice.<br /><br />Unfortunately, most people assume that love is completely about selflessness and sacrifice. They believe love is about compromise. The assumption is, if one loves another, one will give up things - actions, items, etc. - for the other. This is not love. This is self-destruction. This is the atrocious sickening delusion that when two people love one another they become one. 1 + 1 does not = 1. 1 + 1 = 2. When two people love one another they are still two individuals; however, together they become more in the sense that they are happy, they enjoy life. The teaching of two loving individuals becoming one indicates that the individuals of the relationship decrease in value. They destroy parts of themselves so they can be one instead of two. They begin with more value than when they end. Since love is about happiness, about selfishness, one cannot destroy his self to love another. If he does so, he will be miserable, not happy. For before one enters a relationship he loves his self. He loves who he is. He has chosen to be a certain person, act a certain way because it is virtuous because it makes him happy. However, if he enters a relationship demanding sacrifice, he is aborting some of his virtues, aborting what makes him happy. In turn, this will result in one hating the person he allegedly loves because the other caused him to destroy his self, and it will also result in one loathing him self, for he is being less than who he was, the person he chose to be because it made him happy.<br /><br />A further problem with this is that one must love him self before he loves others. A self-loathing individual cannot love another. If one loathes him self, he is basically saying that he is shit, that he is worthless. He admits that he is a failure, meaning he has not realized his values; thus, he is also admitting that he is vicious. Consequently, he is saying that he is unworthy of love. He believes that no one should selfishly choose him over all others, for he thinks he is worse than all others. Therefore, one contradicts himself by searching for love to cure his self loathing.<br /><br />Additionally, as I have stated several times before love is a selfish act. Thus, one loves another because he believes he deserves love. Essentially, he values himself enough to pursue and enjoyable relationship with another. If one loathes himself, however, he admits he is of no value, that he is so horrible he does not deserve to enjoy a relationship with another. Therefore, one must obviously love himself before he loves others. </span><br /><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"> <br />Firstly, I now realize that I must love another that enjoys the same activities as me. If I am to love another, the other must be interested in philosophical discussion like this. I am not saying everyone must like philosophical discussion. Everyone should be concerned about truth and being virtuous, but not everyone must enjoy the exploration of it. My argument here is that two people who love one another must enjoy similar activities. For example, one who enjoy skiing, and loves the winter, cannot love someone who loathes the winter and despises skiing.<br /><br />Secondly, it is completely nonsensical that one should not be able to enjoy innocent activities with other friends. It would make sense for one to oppose his loved one's use of heroine with others, for heroine indicates all kinds of unstable moral positions of the other person. Discussing politics, playing sports, playing video games, board games, card games, watching movies, listening to music, all pretty innocent activities that one should not demand his alleged loved one not to partake in.</span><br /><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;">  </span><br /><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqc-6wakBZl6gFFnddYNcBIS1_bSqEk7vkHnQbCDN1QnZ2k_rbZSKIDHPSNHSTk3BUxrRCHxRFC-twnj-mHA8k-AQnlTRvN4U6PcJkA0eP3H6ZLKRH7PuZNxcowkUDqigvt3211Iq8wATH/s1600/aspergers-love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqc-6wakBZl6gFFnddYNcBIS1_bSqEk7vkHnQbCDN1QnZ2k_rbZSKIDHPSNHSTk3BUxrRCHxRFC-twnj-mHA8k-AQnlTRvN4U6PcJkA0eP3H6ZLKRH7PuZNxcowkUDqigvt3211Iq8wATH/s320/aspergers-love.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt;"></span></div></div>

Love

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